Speed dating – Comparison with online dating

September 23, 2009 by ovi · Leave a Comment

Comparisons continue to be made between speed dating and online dating. There are pros and cons to both and people are reconciling to the facts pretty well and choosing what they feel is convenient for them as a person.

Let us look at some of the beliefs and thoughts that people have with regard to speed dating and online dating:

a)      Speed dating is not considered as safe as online dating.

b)      Speed dating is a spontaneous activity best suited to those who wear their heart on their sleeve and are loathe to a lot of planning. It is supposed to suit people who are more adventurous and keen on fast action.  Online dating on the other hand is more beneficial for those who would like to understand a person through regular chat, messages etc before going on a date.

c)      Relationships born out of speed dating is transient and not long lasting as very often people tend to put up an appearance for the moment and once the partner gets to know the real personality, there are greater chances of a split. It focuses more on the external appearance and is ideal for one night stands or casual affairs.

d)      Online dating is more structured and allows some preliminary screening to determine compatibility and therefore provides the individuals a better chance to build lasting relationships.

Irrespective of the above thoughts and impressions, ultimately it is what you as an individual feel at a particular point in time that will decide what kind of dating you wish to get into. Having preconceived notions or ideas about both forms of dating may not be the right way to approach dating.

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Interracial dating

September 19, 2009 by ovi · Leave a Comment

When two individuals belonging to separate races try to establish social contact, interracial dating comes into play. Though the example of a white man dating a black woman and vice versa is often quoted, interracial dating also extends to individuals across countries and is not restricted in its geographical expanse.

Though we are in a free world and well within our rights to date anybody of our liking, certain social and discriminatory pressures play their part in raising issues about dating people belonging to different races, which is rather unfortunate.

The reasons touted are pretty illogical. Some feel that a white man dating a black woman dilutes his personality as over the years, blacks have been considered as the weaker and inferior race as compared to the whites. The fact that this reason is still prevalent is a sad commentary on how things stand today and all the efforts put in by great leaders like Martin Luther King and Mahatma Gandhi seem to have been in vain.

Such issues are not restricted only to the color of the skin. They crop up even when somebody dates an individual from another country and depending on the perspective, one of them is considered inferior to the other and such dating is often frowned upon.

It is really time for us to reevaluate our value system and start treating people on what they can do as a person and focus more on his abilities, character, rather than judge them based on the color of their skin or what nation they belong to.

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Dating in Leeds

September 7, 2009 by ovi · Leave a Comment

If there is one place outside of London famous for clubbing activity, it has to be Leeds. Whether it is the well known Speed Queen, Back to Basics night spots or clubs like Bondi and Baja beach, Leeds boasts of many such wonderful places that are very conducive to dating. One other popular spot is the Creations, touted to be one of the largest clubs in Leeds. All these places see many singles visiting them and striking relationships very soon. Though you might argue that such dating is primarily casual and driven by physical appearance, the fact is that these opportunities could be the precursor for something more lasting and such casual dating could develop into a stronger relationship given more time and effort.

Singles can also take the advantage of other options like the museums and art galleries in Leeds to find dates of their choice. Events organized by the church, sporting events for those inclined towards sports, speed dating and even blind dating are other approaches that are available for the singles in Leeds.

For those looking for a more traditional approach, the internet has opened new frontiers and many popular online dating sites have made their presence felt over the years. These sites enable you to strike conversation over the internet with potential dates and get to know them before plunging into dating them. The other option is to go through professional matchmakers who help you take compatibility tests and enable match making taking into considerations sensitive factors like religion, family background etc.

The options are many. You only need to pick the one you are comfortable with to begin your dating journey.

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Dating in Harringey

September 3, 2009 by ovi · Leave a Comment

Harringey located towards North London has a very interesting demographic profile. More than half of its 225.000 population consists of people from various ethnic backgrounds and over 40% of them fall in the age group 21 – 38. The fact that close to 21% of this population is black is another pertinent data point and provides enough opportunities for interracial dating in this dynamic place

This borough is commercially very vibrant and due to its proximity to inner London and good connectivity, there is a lot of movement of people in transit providing a lot of interesting possibilities for people to date each other, not only from within the borough but also from outside it.

Besides the usual hangouts that are prevalent in any city like the shopping centers and cinema halls at Wood Green and Bounds Green, Harringey boasts of a high percentage of open green areas having been awarded the Green Flag 7 times for the commitment shown by the borough to promote greenery in its jurisdiction. Such spaces provide a welcome relief from the concrete jungle trap that most modern cities have fallen prey to and is an ideal get away for a dating couple to spend quality time with each other.

Other interesting places include the Paddock that gives a rural touch and the High gate Woods that is another favorite with many couples interested to go for a long and relaxing walk. People inclined towards football will find the White Hart Lane Football Stadium hosting matches played by the Tottenham Hotspurs. Sporting events like football are also wonderful avenues for striking a date with a partner of your choice.

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